Confetti, Countdowns, and Quiet Tears

The countdowns, the confetti, the cheers—everywhere you look, there’s excitement about the new year. People are making resolutions, planning celebrations, and talking about fresh starts. But for those of us grieving, it can feel like the world is moving on while we’re still carrying the weight of loss.

When you’re navigating grief, the idea of a “new year” can feel heavy. It’s not that you don’t want to hope for better days; it’s that the thought of stepping into another year without them can feel overwhelming.

There’s an unspoken expectation to feel excited, to embrace the “fresh start” that the new year promises. But grief doesn’t work that way. It doesn’t fade with the turn of a calendar page. A new year doesn’t erase the love you’ve lost or the ache that remains.

It can be hard to find the words to explain this to others. Why resolutions don’t feel relevant. Why the idea of celebrating feels distant. Why you might not be ready to imagine the year ahead. Grief has its own pace, and it doesn’t always align with the world’s celebrations.

Sometimes, the hardest part is navigating the pressure to move forward when your heart still feels stuck in the past. But here’s the truth: you don’t owe anyone an explanation. You don’t have to force excitement or match the energy of those around you.

The new year might not feel joyful or hopeful right now, and that’s okay. Grief doesn’t need a timeline or permission to be felt. It’s messy, personal, and deeply valid.

So, if the cheers and countdowns feel distant, know this: you are not alone. You’ll take this new year one moment, one breath, one small step at a time. And that is more than enough.

Sending love and strength,

Aimee

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